As research shows women are more likely to be community leaders, we sought out inspiring women within Redbridge to share their stories to aspiring social action leaders. The aim of the session was to provide a good network of people with a common goal and have discussions about the future of our neighbourhoods.
Bushra Tahir, from AWAAZ a women’s rights charity, was the first of our speakers. She shared her story of how one particular year, a number of events in her life left her feeling depressed and lost. It took a lot of time and her mother’s encouragement for things to turn around. She discovered that helping others was her remedy to feeling better and having a focus on helping women who were in worse situations helped Bushra to start AWAAZ. She praised her friends that helped her start AWAAZ, who had come to the event for moral support. She explained that they are more like a family as they support each other and other women to improve different areas of their lives.
Alison Smith from Empowering Parents Together, our next speaker discovered the influence she, as an individual could make, when she wrote a letter to a magazine about something she thought should be changed in line with health and safety and to her surprise the company took this on board and changed their adverts. From here she continued to write letters to people and organisations, and this mentality helped Alison understand the power she had to make changes. She shared that, from her personal experience of struggling for years alone with schools about her son’s performance and attitude, she was relieved to discover at the Parents Together forum, that other parents shared similar stories. Alison is now the chair of Parents Together, and their main goal is co-production, which involves parents working with policy and service makers to improve outcomes for users: young people and children in the borough. This leads to “educating the educators”. Alison advised that looking out for and joining existing groups is an excellent way into social action, as they will already have established contacts and a network of people who share the same values.
Judith Garfield founder of the Eastside Community Heritage spoke about her childhood shaping the work she is now involved in. Growing up in the Borough during the 1970’s, Judith has experiences of being chased from the synagogue from members of the national front, a far-right fascist political party. From campaigning and representing residents, Judith joined the Eastside Community Heritage. Their aim is to document stories and share them with others, particularly to young people to inform them about their heritage. Judith is excited about the East End Women’s Museum, which will give a women’s perspective on our history which Judith says has proved challenging as women tend to downplay their role in society. Overall Judith’s story showed us the importance of appreciating and learning about our local past as it is essential in understanding and shaping the future.
Jocelyn Davis from the Redbridge Foodbank spoke about how her experience in the private sector that provided her with the skills that in part has enabled the foodbank to be so successful. When Jocelyn was made redundant from the job she had had for over 30 years, she was approached by the minister of her Church about an idea of starting a foodbank, at the time Jocelyn was not even sure what a foodbank was but with a group of willing Church volunteers, they managed to start it up. Jocelyn has seen how rewarding it is to make a difference in peoples’ lives and understands the need for our community to come together when we see problems to resolve them ourselves.
From our Q&A and group discussion, it was clear people want better community spirit and they felt physical face-to-face meetups are a good way to engage people. They believe co-production is something we should be thinking about when improving neighbourhoods. All our speakers were proof that anyone can make a difference and from them opening up and sharing their stories, we can see the importance of voicing our opinion, standing up for those who need it and working together.