Bereavement support
It can be overwhelming when someone close dies. You may find it difficult to cope and not know how to find the support you need.
What to do when someone dies
GOV.UK provides a guide on what you should do when someone dies.
This includes:
- registering the death
- arranging the funeral
- telling the government about the death (Tell Us Once service)
- checking if you can get bereavement benefits
- dealing with the estate
Arranging a funeral
Contact your local funeral director to help you arrange the funeral. The funeral director will be able to guide and support you through the process.
If you hire a funeral director, choose one who’s a member of either:
- The National Association of Funeral Directors
- The National Society of Allied and Independent Funeral Directors (SAIF)
If there are no known relatives or friends able to make the funeral arrangements, we may be able to support.
In Redbridge, we have five cemeteries and a crematorium.
- Forest Park Cemetery and Crematorium, Hainault.
- Roding Lane North Cemetery, Woodford
- Barkingside Garden of Rest, Longwood Gardens, Barkingside
- Barkingside Cemetery, Longwood Gardens, Barkingside
- Buckingham Road Cemetery, Ilford
Get help with funeral costs
You may be able to get help with the cost of a funeral or if you need to access bereavement benefits.
- Government Funeral Expenses Payment if you receive certain benefits or tax credits. You should tell the funeral director before committing to any arrangements
- Advice from the Money Advice Service. This lists alternative options for paying for a funeral
- Government Bereavement Support Payment if your partner has died
- Government Guardian’s Allowance if you're bringing up a child whose parents have died. If you’re a lone surviving parent, you may also be able to get this allowance
- Quaker Social Action supports people struggling with funeral costs
- Child Funeral Charity help families who need to arrange a funeral for a baby or child
- Turn2Us provides a range of financial support including that related to bereavement
Organisations that can help
- NHS website has information on physical and emotional symptoms of grief
- Samaritans offer support to anyone experiencing stress, despair or is in crisis. You can call them free on 116123
- Cruse Bereavement Care have several wellbeing support resources. You can also call them on 0808 808 1677, Monday to Friday
- Redbridge Talking Therapies provide treatment and services to those feeling distressed. You can call them on 0300 300 1554, Monday to Friday
- St Francis Hospice can guide and support you through counselling, support groups and resources
Older people
- The Silver Line is a free helpline for information, friendship and advice to older people. You can call them on 0800 470 80 90, every day of the year
- Age UK provide advice for how to cope with the death of a loved one and the emotions you may experience
Cancer
- Marie Curie Telephone Bereavement Support can help anyone affected by a terminal illness. You can call them on 0800 090 2309 seven days a week
- Macmillan Cancer Support charity offers support and information to those who have lost someone to cancer
- The Loss Foundation is a charity providing support following the death of a loved one to cancer. They provide support events to help people connect in loss
Children and young adults
- Child Bereavement UK supports families and professionals when a child dies or when a child grieves. You can call them on 0800 02 888 40, Monday to Friday
- Hope Again offers support for young people who have lost someone. You can call them on 0808 808 1677, Monday, Tuesday, Thursday and Friday
- The Compassionate Friends gives support to bereaved parents, adult siblings and grandparents. You can call them on 0345 123 2304, everyday
Suicide
- MIND bereavement by suicide provides support to people bereaved or affected by suicide
- The Support After Suicide Partnership offers support to people who have lost a loved one to suicide
Heart conditions
- British Heart Foundation supports anyone who has lost someone through a heart condition. They also offer specialist resources for children
- Cardiac Risk in the Young (CRY) supports families after the tragedy of a young sudden cardiac death
Alzheimer’s
- Alzheimer’s Society supports people with grief, loss and bereavement when the person has dementia